|Paris always has such a dumb hat.|
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But I do love Ovid's writing of Paris in the Heroides. I know I've talked about it a little bit before, but those exercises of rhetoric are by far the most fascinating illustration of Paris' character that I've come across. He is bold and confident and unafraid. He's determined and conniving. There is absolutely nothing fickle about his desire for Helen. He wants her, and he's willing to employ every dirty trick in the book to get her. However idiotic he might be later, in Ovid's letters, Paris charms me. I can believe, reading his letter to Helen, that she was fighting against someone with an overpowering charisma-- and that she had no real defense against such a man's seduction, especially if her relationship to Menelaus was less than great.
My passion for you I have brought; I did not find it here. It is that which was the cause of so long a voyage, for neither gloomy storm has driven me hither, nor a wandering course; [...] It is you I come for – you, whom golden Venus has promised for my bed; you were my heart’s desire before you were known to me. I beheld your features with my soul ere I saw them with my eyes; rumour, that told me of you, was the first to deal my wound.and then he boasts!
And as I long for you, so women have longed for me; alone, you can possess the object of many women’s prayers! And not only have the daughters of princes and chieftains sought me, but even the nymphs have felt for me the cares of love.
And so Theseus rightly felt love’s flame, for he was acquaint with all your charms, and you seemed fit spoil for the great hero to steal away, [...] His stealing you away, I commend; my marvel is that he ever gave you back. So fine a spoil should have been kept with constancy. Sooner would this head have left my bloody neck that you have been dragged from marriage-chamber of mine. One like you, would ever these hands of mine be willing to let go? One like you, would I, alive, allow to leave my embrace? If you must needs have been rendered up, I should first at least have taken some pledge from you; my love for you would not have been wholly for naught. Either your virgin flower I should have plucked, or taken what could be stolen without hurt to your virgin state."His stealing you away, I commend; my marvel is that he ever gave you back." Paris' admissions are kind of alarming, if you ask me. But he is SO confident that she will love him, is meant to love him and can't resist him, he holds nothing back. Not even a confession that if he had been Theseus, he would have raped her, if need be. (And I'm not going to touch the fact that he talks about her like she's furniture-- that wouldn't have been odd to Helen, just as it was totally natural for Ovid.)
Even his bribes are presented in such a matter of fact way that it's obvious he doesn't think he's bribing her so much as stating the facts. The FACTS are that Troy is far wealthier, and she will be showered in riches and kept in splendor. The FACTS are that he can offer her a better life than she'll ever have in Sparta, which is nothing in comparison to his homeland. The FACTS are that Menelaus doesn't deserve her.
I regret my being a guest, when before my eyes that rustic lays his arms about your neck. I burst with anger and envy – for why should I not tell everything? – when he lays his mantle over your limbs to keep you warm. But when you openly give him tender kisses, I take up my goblet and hold it before my eyes; when he holds you closely pressed, I let my gaze fall, and the dull food grows big within my unwilling mouth.His recklessness, his boldness in addressing her so honestly and so brutally, is what's so appealing. He is SO in love with her that he can't help himself, that he has no fear at all. Here is the bad boy, the anti-hero we're denied. He's completely arrogant, and committed to making the most of the opportunity he's been given (with Menelaus away in Crete) by any means necessary. Sure, he'd prefer her willing, but from the tenor of this letter, it's clear that he won't let her willingness really get in his way if she gives him even the smallest of openings.
Paris is a villain. A stalker, obsessed with his prey. And he will not stop, because he sees encouragement in every polite smile she gives him. He will not stop because the gods have given Helen to him, and in that certainty, there is nothing she can say that will dissuade him from what he perceives as the truth, the facts. She will love him, eventually. Aphrodite herself promised it.
Reading Ovid, I can believe that Helen never had a chance.
You know, I have a copy of Ovid, but haven't gotten around to reading it.ReplyDelete
I've never liked Paris, but the excerpts here make him sound almost intriguing. But you're right--he might not hold enough appeal to sustain a whole book with him in the spotlight.
Interesting. I've never liked Helen and thought Paris was foolish. I can't sympathize with Helen because I don't care how awful your husband is, adultery is adultery.ReplyDelete
Stephanie: I never really cared for him either. I don't understand what the heck Helen was thinking, honestly. Except in Ovid!ReplyDelete
Sarah: They are definitely both foolish on the surface. But I think there has to be something going on. The other thing, is that Helen and Paris were both manipulated by the gods, so I'm not sure Helen had a choice in the matter.
Under Roman law,the mere act of taking Helen away from her husband was considered rape (her consent non withstanding and with Aphrodite pulling the strings not bloody likely), so Ovid really made him into a bad boy.ReplyDelete
This is an awesome post, but all I can think of is: that is a really dumb hat :DReplyDelete
Ralfast: I don't think her consent mattered overmuch to the greeks either, when it came to the definition of Rape. That word had an entirely different meaning then than it does now.ReplyDelete
Amelia: That's what I'm saying!
I have a feeling that is not a hat, but the face plate of a helm.ReplyDelete
No-- it's a Scythian Hat. Paris is often depicted wearing one like this:http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Metropolitan_canova_paris.jpgReplyDelete